Answered by Ustadha Zaynab Ansari, SunniPath Academy Teacher
In the Name of Allah, the Gracious, the Merciful
Dear Sister,
Assalamu alaikum,
I pray this finds you well.
Your husband's words have no effect. What matters is that you performed your Umrah in accordance with the Sunna, following all the proper manners entailed therein. If your intention was for Allah Ta'ala, then you should think well of Allah Most High and trust Him to reward you for this act of devotion.
What your husband said was hurtful and it's good that he apologized. You should move on, but perhaps consider why you had an argument at such a time and what you can do in the future to prevent it from reoccurring.
Wasalaam,
Zaynab
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